Some of us are very caring and amazing until we care for ourselves. We do the most important things for people without ever remembering to do those same things for ourselves. Tell me, are you not deserving of love, kindness, care, and awesomeness? You very much are. You are more than worthy of all of these. Taking care of oneself is an art. You need to learn one great art to become the best version of yourself. I see caring for one's oneself as nurturing. In this case, you are the flower. It would be best to have all the care you can get to flourish abundantly.